Stop, Remember, and Try with Gerund or Infinitive

Stop, Remember, and Try: Gerund vs. Infinitive Meaning Changes

In English, certain verbs can be followed by either a gerund (-ing form) or an infinitive (to + verb), but the meaning changes dramatically depending on which you choose. The verbs stop, remember, and try are classic examples of this phenomenon, and mastering them is essential for clear communication.

Stop + gerund means to quit doing something (e.g., "She stopped smoking" = she quit the habit), while stop + infinitive means to pause in order to do something (e.g., "She stopped to smoke" = she paused her activity to have a cigarette). Similarly, remember + gerund refers to recalling a past action (e.g., "I remember locking the door" = I have a memory of doing it), whereas remember + infinitive means not forgetting to do something in the future (e.g., "Remember to lock the door" = don't forget to do it).

The verb try follows a similar pattern: try + gerund suggests experimenting with something as a possible solution (e.g., "Try restarting the computer"), while try + infinitive emphasizes making an effort or attempt to do something difficult (e.g., "I tried to open the jar but couldn't"). Understanding these distinctions will help you express yourself more precisely and avoid confusing your listener or reader. Try the quiz to check your knowledge!

Gerund

The gerund takes the same form (ending in -ing) as the present participle, but is used as a noun (or rather the verb phrase introduced by the gerund is used as a noun phrase). Many uses of gerunds are thus similar to noun uses of the infinitive. Uses of gerunds and gerund phrases are illustrated below:

As subject or predicative expression:

  • Solving problems is satisfying.
  • My favorite activity is spotting butterflies.

As object of certain verbs that admit such constructions:

  • I like solving problems.
  • We tried restarting the computer.

In a passive-type construction after certain verbs, with a gap (zero) in object or complement position, understood to be filled by the subject of the main clause:

  • That floor wants/needs scrubbing.
  • It doesn't bear thinking about.

As complement of certain prepositions:

  • No one is better at solving problems.
  • Before jogging, she stretches.
  • After investigating the facts, we made a decision.
  • That prevents you from eating too much.

It is considered grammatically correct to express the agent(logical subject) of a gerund using a possessive form (they object to my helping them), although in informal English a simple noun or pronoun is often used instead (they object to me helping them).

Infinitive

Regarding English, the term infinitive is traditionally applied to the unmarked form of the verb when it forms a non-finite verb, whether or not introduced by the particle to.

Hence sit and to sit, as used in the following sentences, would each be considered an infinitive:

  • I can sit here all day.
  • I want to sit on the other chair.

The form without to is called the bare infinitive; the form introduced by to is called the full infinitive or to-infinitive.

The other non-finite verb forms in English are the gerund or present participle (the -ing form), and the past participle – these are not considered infinitives.

Moreover, the unmarked form of the verb is not considered an infinitive when it is forms a finite verb: like a present indicative ("I sit every day"), subjunctive ("I suggest that he sit"), or imperative ("Sit down!"). (For some irregular verbs the form of the infinitive coincides additionally with that of the past tense and/or past participle, like in the case of put.)

Certain auxiliary verbs are defective in that they do not have infinitives (or any other non-finite forms).

This applies to the modal verbs (can, must, etc.), as well as certain related auxiliaries like the had of had better and the used of used to. (Periphrases can be employed instead in some cases, like (to) be able to for can, and (to) have to for must.) It also applies to the auxiliary do, like used in questions, negatives and emphasis like described under do-support. Infinitives are negated by simply preceding them with not.

Of course the verb do when forming a main verb can appear in the infinitive. However, the auxiliary verbs have (used to form the perfect) and be (used to form the passive voice and continuous aspect) both commonly appear in the infinitive: "I should have finished by now"; "It's thought to have been a burial site"; "Let him be released"; "I hope to be working tomorrow."

Perfect Infinitive

There are nonfinite constructions that are marked for perfect, progressive or perfect progressive aspect, using the infinitives, participles or gerunds of the appropriate auxiliaries. The meanings are as would be expected for the respective aspects: perfect for prior occurrence, progressive for ongoing occurrence at a particular time. (Passive voice can also be marked in nonfinite constructions – with infinitives, gerunds and present participles – in the expected way: (to) be eaten, being eaten, having been eaten, etc.)

Examples of nonfinite constructions marked for the various aspects are given below.

Bare infinitive:

  • You should have left earlier. (perfect infinitive; for similar constructions and their meanings see modal verbs)
  • She might be revising. (progressive; refers to an ongoing action at this moment)
  • He must have been working hard. (perfect progressive; i.e. I assume he has been working hard)

To-infinitive:

  • He is said to have resigned. (perfect infinitive)
  • I expect to be sitting here this time tomorrow. (progressive)
  • He claims to have been working here for ten weeks. (perfect progressive)

Present participle:

  • Having written the letter, she went to bed. (perfect)
  • The man having left, we began to talk. (perfect, in a nominative absolute construction)
  • Having been standing for several hours, they were beginning to feel tired. (perfect progressive)

Past participle:

  • We have been waiting a long time. (progressive, used only as part of a perfect progressive construction)

Gerund:

  • My having caught the spider impressed the others. (perfect)
  • We are not proud of having been drinking all night. (perfect progressive)

Other aspectual, temporal and modal information can be marked on nonfinite verbs using periphrastic constructions. For example, a "future infinitive" can be constructed using forms such as (to) be going to eat or (to) be about to eat.

Verb

A verb is a word that expresses an action, a state, or an occurrence — and it's the engine of every English sentence. Understanding how verbs work is foundational to everything else in English grammar, from forming questions to building complex sentences.

Verb Forms

Most English verbs have five inflected forms:

  • Base form (go, write, climb) — used as an infinitive, imperative, present subjunctive, and present indicative in all persons except third-person singular.
  • -s form (goes, writes, climbs) — used for the present tense, third-person singular (she writes).
  • Past tense (went, wrote, climbed) — also called the preterite.
  • Past participle (gone, written, climbed) — identical to the past tense for regular verbs, but often different for irregular verbs.
  • -ing form (going, writing, climbing) — serves as the present participle and gerund.

The verb be is a special case with more forms than any other English verb (am, is, are, was, were, been, being). Modal verbs like can, must, and should have fewer forms than typical verbs.

Main Verbs and Auxiliaries

Verbs in English often appear in combinations: one or more auxiliary verbs paired with a main verb.

  • The dog was barking very loudly.
  • My hat has been cleaned.
  • Jane does not really like us.

The first verb in the combination is the finite verb (it carries tense and agrees with the subject). The rest are nonfinite (infinitives or participles). Notice that these verbs don't always sit next to each other — as in does not really like.

Tense, Aspect, and Mood

English expresses tense (time reference), aspect (how an action unfolds over time), and mood (the speaker's attitude toward the action) mostly through verb combinations rather than word endings. That's why you'll encounter labels like "present progressive" or "conditional perfect" — these are specific tense–aspect–mood combinations built with auxiliaries.

Self-check: If you can change the time of a sentence by swapping one word (She runs → She ran), that word is the verb.

Keep Practising

To build your verb skills from the ground up, try these challenges: Basics. "To be" in Present Tense, Basics. Common Uses of Auxiliary Verbs, and Transitive and Intransitive Verbs.

B1 | Intermediate

B1 is the intermediate level of the Common European Framework of Reference for Languages (CEFR). It marks the point where you move beyond survival English and start expressing yourself with real independence — describing experiences, explaining opinions, and handling everyday situations without a script.

What a B1 user can do

At this level, you're expected to:

  • Understand the main points of clear, standard speech and writing on familiar topics — work, school, travel, hobbies.
  • Handle most travel situations in English-speaking environments.
  • Produce simple connected text on topics you know or care about.
  • Describe experiences, events, hopes, and plans, and give brief reasons and explanations for your opinions.
  • Communicate in routine tasks that require a straightforward exchange of information.

What B1 grammar looks like

B1 is where grammar starts to get more layered. You're not just forming basic sentences anymore — you're combining ideas, using different tenses with more precision, and starting to handle structures like the passive voice, modal verbs for necessity and possibility, and gerunds vs. infinitives. You're also expected to build complex sentences with linking words and dependent clauses.

Typical B1 grammar areas include:

  • Future tenses — distinguishing will, going to, and the present continuous for future plans
  • Passive voiceThe report was written yesterday.
  • Modal verbsYou should apply early. / She might be late.
  • Used toI used to live in Berlin.
  • Verb patterns — knowing whether a verb takes a gerund, an infinitive, or both (I enjoy reading vs. I decided to leave)

What B1 doesn't mean

B1 speakers still hesitate, make grammatical errors, and sometimes struggle with less familiar topics. That's normal. The key difference from A2 is that you can keep a conversation going and get your point across even when things aren't perfect. The step up to B2 involves handling more abstract topics, understanding nuance, and producing more complex, accurate language.

Self-check: Can you tell a friend about a recent trip — what happened, what you liked, and what you'd do differently — without switching to your native language? If yes, you're likely operating at B1 or above.

Ready to find out where you stand? Try Are you B1/Intermediate? Test your English CEFR Level to figure out!, then build your skills with challenges like Basics. Passive Voice, Basics. Modal verbs, and Used to.

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